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This week…

A perspective shift that will change how you approach every deliverable and how it helps you be seen as a high performer.

Let's get to it!

Aaron

My perspective on delivering “final” work product shifted once I was on the receiving end of it.

As in: someone else's work product had arrived on my desk, incomplete (they thought it was “final”), and I was the one who had to fix it before morning.

Something clicked in that moment that I hadn't fully understood from the other side. Their work product hadn't landed in my inbox.

It had landed in my evening.

THE QUESTION I KEEP GETTING

"How do I get my boss(es) to see me as a high performer?"

This comes up a lot, but the framing is backwards. The more useful question is: how does my boss experience working with me?

The answer comes down to whether working with you saves them time and makes them look good, or causes them headaches.

HERE'S WHAT I'VE LEARNED

What feedback is really about

When your boss has to spend an hour fixing a model, that's an hour they're not spending on something else. When they have to rewrite a memo, that's their evening. And when they have to re-explain something that should have been caught before it reached them, that costs you trust.

A lot of people think feedback is about the work product itself. It is. But it's also about what the work product costs your boss. Every deliverable you send is a small (sometimes big) claim on another person's time and attention. Understanding that changes how you approach the work.

Submitting work late and not 100% accurate doesn’t just mean a few extra emails back and forth; it could mean your boss being late to dinner with friends or having to reschedule an outing with their partner.

It's not about being perfect. Mistakes happen. But operating with the awareness that your boss will remember both your work product and its impact on their life will push you to do that extra check, ask questions earlier, and communicate timing sooner.

The flip side is equally true

When your work is clean, when it doesn't need to be reworked, when you make someone's job easier instead of harder, people notice. And they remember. You become someone they trust. Someone they want to bring into things as early and often as possible.

That's how you get seen as a high performer: by eliminating the cost of working with you, so that the investment in you becomes a no-brainer… because it saves them time and makes them look good.

Clean work builds reputation faster than any amount of visibility.

What changes when you start managing

The first time you're on the receiving end of someone else's work instead of producing it, the perspective shift is immediate.

You start looking at your own early work differently. The mistakes you made look different once you understand what they cost the people cleaning them up. The things you did right start to make more sense too.

That's one of the more useful things about managing people early, even if nobody tells you it's coming. It doesn't just develop your management skills. It reframes everything you thought you understood about being strong at execution.

WHAT I'D TELL YOU IF WE HAD 5 MORE MINUTES

Before you submit anything, ask yourself: if this came back wrong, what would it cost the person fixing it?

That question changes what you submit. And over time, it changes how people see you.

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